In November, we took an important step forward in our work with the girls under the Plan B project in Kisarawe. We spent the day introducing them to the Maisha curriculum, opening up a space to talk about something often felt but rarely discussed openly, intimate partner violence (IPV). A total of 20 beneficiaries participated in the session.
It was a simple session in setup, but powerful in experience. Once conversations began flowing, it became clear just how much the girls already understood about the realities of IPV around them. Some spoke about controlling behavior being normalized, others shared experiences they had witnessed among friends, neighbours, or even within their own families. These stories were more than statements, they carried emotion, lived experience, and reflection.
What stood out most was how the conversation shifted from awareness to ownership. From identifying violence, recognising self-worth, rights, and the importance of safety in relationships. Many of the girls expressed that this was the first time they were able to speak about these issues in a supportive environment, where they were listened to rather than judged. You could almost feel the room grow lighter as understanding deepened and confidence built.
As we worked through the curriculum, they began asking thoughtful questions: What does a healthy relationship look like? How do we notice early signs of abuse? How do we help someone who is afraid to speak?
Their voices carried strength. Their curiosity opened up layers of conversation. And by the end of the session, there was a sense of clarity, that love should not be painful, fearful, or controlling. That respect and equality are not optional. That they have the right not just to dream, but to feel safe while doing so.
This was more than a lesson, it was a moment of awakening.
We left Kisarawe with a lot of hope. If young girls can hold these conversations now bravely, honestly, without shrinking then change is not just possible, it is already beginning. Our work with the Maisha curriculum continues, but what happened in that room is a reminder of why it matters. When girls gain knowledge, they gain power. And when they gain power, entire communities shift.
More sessions are ahead. More voices will be heard. And most importantly, more girls will grow knowing they deserve relationships rooted in respect, dignity, and love.